Marines and Bad Timing

This past weekend my assertion that you meet guys when you are not looking for them was once again proven correct.

Apparently it’s the night I don’t shower before I go out. Third time my mindset is “ah, I’m just gonna hang out with friends, not trying to pick up anyone, I wont bother showering” and the third time I meet a guy that is not only attractive and wants me.

Well, not just wants, me can’t stop wanting me. The problem? I’m still with new boy! I like him lots, and I mean, we never talked about being exclusive, but I feel like it would be in bad taste to start dating a guy on the side when I spent the night at new boy’s place on the occasional weekend.

But here’s what happened:

I was at NB’s frat for a party and a bunch of their mutual friends showed up. NB had to go work the bar in his frat so we all went uptown to the bar. We’re hanging out, dancing, etc.

I was dancing with one of NB’s best friends, nothing there, trust me. Just friendly.

Then this guy comes up and offers to dance with me. NB’s friend wanders off and I start dancing with this new guy. He is a Marine, obvious, huge muscles, short hair, great smile. Yeah, he was hot. hot. hot.

Well he gets my number, but I feel so guilty! I mean, we were talking in front of all NB’s friends! They didn’t seem to think anything of it though.

Well Marine, who is in my phone as North Carolina and will be hence forth called that, keeps texting me. A lot. He offered to talk me home, but I walked out with friends.

Then I met up and went home with NB for some cuddling and Bible study. Excellent cuddling, he’s such a good spooner. heh.

But then North Carolina kept texting me all the next day, added me on facebook, etc. And just a few minutes ago called me. I chose to ignore because I didn’t really want to make up some excuse.

I made a conscious decision to stick with New Boy. He’s smart, cute, funny. North Carolina might be damn hot, but he strikes me as the kind of guy that is gonna be a bit clingy and posessive.

But why the hell do all these boys pop up out of no where when I’m not even looking??

Is it true, the less you try, the more desirable you are? Should I just stop working hard a looking good before I go out?

All I know is, it’s hard to choose, but it makes me feel good about New Boy and me that my decision was so easy. Hopefully he would do the same for me.

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